Introduction of Control Dynamics

This recording gives an summary of control issues and dynamics that lays the background for the another recordings-designed for some partners.

• Why simply wanting to change isn't enough-and what else you need.
• Why a controller is so invested with in keeping control.
• What to do you do if you disagree with your partner's assessment that you're too controlling.
• What control issues are in a marriage or relationship.
• How to cognize if you're a passive partner.
• How to cognize if you're a dominant partner.
• How control issues can harm a relationship and lead to breaking up or divorce.
• How control is exerted in a relationship and how to recognize it.

This recording gives specific recommendations for individuals who are the much dominant partner in the relationship or marriage.

• What partners can do to reduce the bad feelings that result once they disagree.
• What a dominant partner can say once the mate doesn't believe change is possible.
• Seven things a partner has to be willing to do in order to change dominant tendencies.
• How to handle confrontations with your partner simply about the control dynamics.
• How to express your wants without appearance controlling.
• How blame diverts attention and hides the real issues.
• How a partner can handle lapse into former dominant behavior.

This recording gives specific recommendations for individuals who are the much passive partner in the relationship or marriage.

• What you need to cognize simply about codependency.
• The difference between assertive and aggressive or passive-aggressive behavior.
• Specific strategies to change the balance of power in your relationship.
• How to stand up for yourself once your partner doesn't agree with you.
• How to handle anger and another strong emotions.
• How to empower yourself and not lose yourself in your relationship.
• Five things that must be in place before you can come forward.
• Exact steps to take to become much assertive.