E-book Category: Mind, Psychology
E-book Title: How To WIN When Your MAte Cheats
Author: Dr. Gilda Carle
Book Description: DR. GILDA CARLE
"AMERICA'S FAVORITE RELATIONSHIP EXPERT"
REVEALS A SHOCKER: "When Betrayal Happens TO You, It Really Happens FOR You!" Your betrayal may seem like the worst experience of your
life. AND IT IS, WHILE YOU'RE ENDURING THE PAIN!!
But it may actually be the BEST. Betrayal pushes a shaky
relationship to mend much stronger or to finally end!
Whatever the outcome, YOU WIN!! FIND OUT HOW. WINNER!
Literary Award
London Book Festival DISCOVER THE TRUTHS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT LOVE ARE YOU SUFFERING NOW? - Do you feel betrayed?
- Do you continue to review what went wrong?
- Do you feel angry at your mate?
- Do you feel scared to be on your own?
- Do you blame yourself?
- Do you not feel attractive enough? thin enough? rich enough? smart enough?
- Do you feel hopeless?
- Do you feel ashamed?
- Do you want revenge?
NEWS FLASH!! You can feel better, respond calmly and wisely, and enhance the
outcome of your relationship and your life--NOW! A MATE'S BETRAYAL ASSAULTS YOUR EGO -- IF YOU LET IT! Most people take their mate's cheating personally by wondering what THEY did wrong. They ask, "Why am I no longer desirable?" And they allow rejection to lower their self-esteem. When they contact me, most betrayed people say they "don't know what to do." THIS PROGRAM SHOWS YOU WHAT TO DO -- AND HOW TO WIN WHEN YOU DO IT!
If you're suffering, and you blame yourself for something, anything, or everything, STOP! Even Hollywood beauties and heartthrobs are betrayed. Uma Thurman had no idea her husband, Ethan Hawke, was bonking their babysitter. They divorced, but the cheaters remained entwined, unmarried, and pregnant - which Uma must face forever, since she has children with Hawke. Valerie Bertanelli admitted she cheated on her hot rocker, Eddie Van Halen, during their marriage, despite his star appeal and their red carpet life. These are just two gorgeous and desirable celebs who were cheated on by those who allegedly loved them. There are countless more. BUT . . .
YOU CAN LIVE A BETTER LIFE BECAUSE OF YOUR BETRAYAL! RELATIONSHIP DERAILMENTS CAN DESTROY YOUR HEALTH
Nobody wants a relationship derailment. That's why we stay stuck in unhappiness. When I was getting divorced, I had a serious car accident. A few years later, when I ended an engagement, I had another one. In both cases, I was the breakup initiator.
Someone re-named me "GUILTA" for all the suffering I sustained during my splits!! Research shows that the person who ends a romance may suffer MORE than the person s/he is leaving. But negative feelings lead to negative behavior - and in my case, they occurred behind the wheel - not a recommended release for rage. INTRODUCING: HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS 4 Volumes - Volume 1. WHY CHEATERS KEEP CHEATING
- Volume 2. THE ONE YOU LOVE IS THE ONE YOU'LL LEAVE
- Volume 3. HOW TO COPE WITH THE CHEATER YOU LOVE
- Volume 4. TO MEND OR TO END?
Volumes, 400+ pages include: Dr. Gilda's renowned Gilda-Grams; client stories; real e-mails sent to her from real people, with her in-you-face responses; examples of relationship hopping and relationship coping from Hollywood, the tabloids, and real folks; quizzes; self-assessments; exercises; and productive next steps. Singles and marrieds both ache over betrayal. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy warns that betrayed spouses can suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)! The Governor of New York had to leave office in disgrace because he had been a repeat procurer of prostitution businesses. Ironically, this hard-nosed official prosecuted the very businesses he patronized. During his resignation speech, his wife stood beside him, looking shell-shocked and wooden. (PSTD?) CHEATING IS EPIDEMIC, BUT . . . Gilda-Gram:
The issue you perceive is never the real issue. The issue of the Governor's hookers was not the real issue. The real issue was that his marriage had been disintegrating - and neither partner confronted this truth. Gilda-Gram:
When issues are not handled, they eventually explode. Shockingly, within JUST HOURS of the swearing in of the Governor's replacement, the new Governor also made a carnal confession: he had had extramarital affairs "years earlier," during "a rough patch" in his marriage. He said he was "jealous" of the affair his wife was having while they were estranged. She solemnly stood beside him (PTSD?), as he asserted that their marriage was solid now, thanks to counseling. However, nanoseconds later, other women emerged, one by one, claiming he had affairs with them, too, in more recent times! DO YOU KNOW YOUR MATE'S CHEAT POTENTIAL? When the wife of the former New York Governor watched intern-loving Bill Clinton humiliate his wife, she told friends, "That would never be me. I'd be gone." But 10 years later, she was experiencing her own spousal humiliation. They are still a couple. 4 FACTS ABOUT CHEATING - Cheating doesn't necessarily mean your relationship is doomed.
- After a betrayal, 65% of couples choose to stay together. The 35% who part ways question what took them so long.
- Cheating DOES mean a relationship needs SERIOUS repair.
- WITH THE RIGHT GUIDANCE, BETRAYAL CAN JUMPSTART A MORE LOVING FUTURE -- WITH YOUR CURRENT MATE OR A NEW ONE.
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